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Values: A Foundation for Wellness authored by Mr. David Kobelin.

#ValuesDrivenLiving #CoachingForWellness #IdentityRestoration #PersonalGrowthJourney #LeadershipDevelopment #PurposefulLiving
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The 26th International Families and Fathers Conference – Building Bridges is honored to welcome Mr. David Kobelin as a featured keynote speaker on Thursday, April 10, 2025. David’s journey as an Identity Restoration Specialist, pastor, husband, father, leader, and coach is rooted in his unwavering commitment to helping others flourish through clarity of values and purpose. With over 13 years of experience working with clients ranging from students to CEOs of major corporations, David’s approach is grounded in the belief that our core values shape our identity, influence our decisions, and ultimately determine our fulfillment in life. David’s reflections in his blog, "Values: A Foundation for Wellness," offer an intimate look at his personal journey of discovering and embracing his core values. The blog is an invitation to embark on a transformative process that promises to inspire readers to examine their own foundations for living. Whether you're a seasoned professional, a parent navigating the complexities of family life, or someone striving for personal growth, David's insights are sure to resonate deeply.

"The first time I embarked on a Values Clarification Exercise, I was unaware of the profound transformation it would bring. Questions about the animals I'd like to embody, the book titles that would narrate my life, and the eulogies at my memorial service seemed unrelated to my core. Yet, as I delved deeper, a list of values emerged that resonated within me, echoing, 'This is who I am!'

Such is the power of values clarity. Once I understood my core values, I applied them to every aspect of my life—each decision I made, and every goal I set had my values at their foundation. They still do. For instance, a core value of mine is 'honoring individuality.' This is important to me because every person is unique and has a story that only they can tell. And I want to give them the opportunity to tell it well. This is one of the main reasons I am an 'Identity Restoration Specialist.' I operate from my values to help them discover and live from theirs.

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President and Chief Executive Officer

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Authored by Ashley Torres, Father Involvement Specialist, Camden Healthy Start and Tatiyana Stubbs, Health Educator, Camden Healthy Start, The Cooperative

Fathers play a crucial role in reducing maternal mortality by ensuring timely care, providing emotional support, and assisting during critical periods. This blog highlights the importance of father involvement in maternal health and how empowering fathers can lead to healthier outcomes for mothers and children.

Maternal mortality remains a critical issue globally, but often overlooked in discussions about improving maternal health is the pivotal role fathers can play. Empowering fathers to be actively involved in pregnancy, childbirth, and postnatal care is not only a way to support women emotionally but can also have a profound impact on reducing maternal mortality rates. While maternal health discussions often center around women's roles, the involvement of fathers plays a pivotal role in improving maternal outcomes and significantly reducing the risks of maternal mortality. This blog will explore the connection between empowered fathers and safer mothers and how working together can transform maternal health outcomes.

The Global Maternal Mortality Crisis
Maternal mortality refers to deaths caused by complications from pregnancy or childbirth. While many countries have made strides in lowering these rates, maternal mortality remains alarmingly high in many parts of the world. According to the World Health Organization (WHO), approximately 295,000 women died due to complications related to pregnancy and childbirth in 2017. The vast majority of these deaths are preventable, with timely medical care and the right support systems in place. Reducing maternal mortality requires not only medical intervention but also active, informed involvement from fathers who can play a key role in ensuring maternal health and safety.

In describing my passion for this workshop on Motivational Interviewing Strategies to Increase Family and Father Motivation for School Readiness, I must reflect on the experiences that have shaped my inherent interest in the male perspective and its potential impact on men’s lives and those around them.

While working as a psychologist in the UK, I had the privilege of working with male boarding school survivors, where the theme of disconnection in their lives emerged due to separation and trauma. These survivors were sent away from their families to isolative environments, often filled with abusive behavior from authorities in the schools. This was seen as a rite of passage into manhood, training boys to endure emotional pain and press forward despite it. Unfortunately, a consequence of this approach was a profound inability to feel safe with emotionality, which impacted many of their relationships and self-esteem. I observed that this theme was not isolated to boarding school survivors but extended to many other men in the therapeutic environment.

I further explored my interest in the male perspective while working in the U.S. Air Force Surgeon General’s office as a co-investigator on a study examining substance use. Military service is a traditionally male-dominated culture, so many of the advantages and disadvantages associated with traditional male roles were evident. In this study, we hypothesized about the potential impact of male gender roles on substance use counselors, specifically focusing on difficulties related to masculine gender roles, which were measured using the Gender Role Conflict Scales (GRCS), and conformity to masculine gender roles, assessed by the Conformity to Masculine Norms Inventory (CMNI). The GRCS evaluates the internal and external conflicts associated with traditional male roles, such as the importance of success, power, competition, restrictive emotionality, and conflicts between work and family relations. The CMNI examines how much a person conforms to traditional masculine roles, such as winning, dominance, emotional control, and self-reliance.

The study found that both male and female substance use counselors, as well as the populations they treated, exhibited higher levels of conformity to masculine roles and conflict related to those roles. However, this did not impact the counselors' ability to deliver the intended Motivational Interviewing (MI) intervention. MI, a well-established evidence-based method for behavior change, has its roots in the substance use field.

Understanding the Science of Early Childhood Development: Empowering Families and Communities
By Dr. Gloria Andrade, PhD, IMH-E®

Understanding the science of early childhood development is more than just informational—it’s empowering. This knowledge, when applied effectively, can significantly improve relationships and influence policy and practice. It underscores the importance of paying close attention to child development, especially considering that children are the future of our species. This awareness not only provides us with the confidence and capability to positively impact children's lives but also highlights our collective responsibility in shaping the future through early childhood development.

The Importance of Getting Things Right from the Beginning

The early years of a child’s life are crucial, and the way we approach these years can have lifelong effects. The scientific understanding of early childhood development reveals that brain architecture is formed predominantly in the first years of life, making the early years a critical period for development (Shonkoff, 2016). This knowledge empowers us to create real change, both in the lives of children and within our communities. At the Center on the Developing Child at Harvard University, three core principles are identified as key to improving outcomes for children: reducing sources of stress, supporting responsive relationships, and strengthening adaptive skills. These principles are interconnected and apply to both children and their adult caregivers. By focusing on these principles, we can significantly impact the well-being of children, families, and the communities that support them.

Attachment and Serve-and-Return Interactions

HOW SAFE RELATIONSHIPS CAN HELP MEN RECOVER FROM FATHER WOUNDS
By Darron Hilaire

One of the most pervasive issues affecting men today is the widespread problem of fatherlessness—and, more specifically, father wounding. The loss of a father, whether through death, divorce, or personal choice, has left billions of men silently suffering. These struggles often go unnoticed, masked by the many ways men have learned to numb or cope with the pain, without ever truly healing or recovering from it.

At 24 years old, I had the opportunity to visit Chicago for the first time to attend a church conference aimed at young people in their twenties. It was a time of worship, teaching, and reconnecting with old friends. During that event, one of my favorite speakers, John Mark Comer, said, “The hurt of relationship is healed in relationship.” It took me six years and countless ruptured relationships to truly understand the significance of that statement and what it meant to have relationships capable of healing and restoration. That understanding brought hope, encouragement, and the realization that healing was possible through safe, healthy relationships.

During that time, I reflected deeply on the deterioration of my relationship with my biological father, who passed away on February 19, 2017, just a year before this trip. My father had left our home nearly 20 years earlier after he and my mother divorced. For years, I believed the only way to repair that wound was to somehow get my parents back together—a hope that, of course, never materialized. Then I turned to my relationship with God, believing He could heal my pain. Though the hurt lessened for a while, it always returned. I couldn’t separate my father from the concept of God the Father. I tried to surround myself with godly men, hoping they could fulfill the role of father that I so desperately needed.

One day, I read a book by T.D. Jakes, who spoke of the concept of a "surrogate father." This idea resonated deeply with me. A surrogate father, or spiritual father, can help supplement the role of an absent father and fill some of the gaps left by his absence. These surrogate fathers can take many forms—mentors, pastors, older male figures—who offer guidance, wisdom, and support. Thankfully, I found many of these men in the churches I attended, and a few even became genuinely invested in my well-being, growth, and spiritual development. The challenge, however, arose when these father figures made their own mistakes, and it became difficult not to impose the image and shortcomings of my absent father onto them.

With Dad In Mind: Creating an Atmosphere for Dads to Feel Included
By Lamont Jones

Fathers play a crucial role in the family, bringing unique strengths, perspectives, and forms of support vital to a child’s growth and well-being. However, despite these contributions, dads are often overlooked as valuable resources, sometimes cast as secondary figures in parenting. This perspective overlooks the rich benefits involved—fathers bring confidence-building, positive role modeling, and emotional support that strengthens a child’s foundation. Recognizing and valuing the role of fathers is essential to creating an inclusive family environment where both parents are empowered to contribute fully to their children’s lives.

Barriers Dads Face

Yet, many fathers encounter cultural barriers that discourage or limit their engagement in parenting. Stereotypes about men’s roles as “providers” or “disciplinarians” persist, creating expectations that minimize a father’s involvement in caregiving. Some fathers may face bias in workplaces that don’t offer paternity leave or flexible hours, limiting their ability to balance family responsibilities. In schools and communities, events and communications may unconsciously center around mothers, making fathers feel like outsiders in parenting spaces. These cultural barriers can discourage dads from fully engaging in their child’s life despite their desire to contribute.

Author: Dr. Rosina McAlpine, PhD
Parenting Expert | Creator of the Win Win Parenting Program

For: Parents, Educators, Mental Health Professionals, Family Counselors, and Social Workers
#FamilyWellbeing #ParentingTips #MentalHealthSupport #PositiveParenting #FFCA2025
 

Supporting Positivity and Nurturing Mental Wellbeing in Family Life

It seems like life is busier than ever, and one of the biggest challenges families face is finding quality time together. Parents are juggling work, taking care of the household, and driving the kids' to various activities, leaving little time to truly connect as a family or to take time out to rest and rejuvenate. For kids, the stress of jam-packed school and extra-curricular schedules, the strong pull of screentime, and the pressure to perform well in school can all feel overwhelming. When life feels this demanding and rushed, it’s easy for everyone—parents and kids alike—to feel stressed and disconnected which can harm family mental wellbeing.

Building Stronger Bonds as a Family

Join me at the 26th International Families and Fathers Conference
Building Bridges
April 8-11, 2025

I am looking forward to learning and teaching through my workshop: Father's Soaring to New Heights with Their Families – Providing Workforce Development Programming

Author: Katrina R. Johnson, EMBA
Founder & Chief Executive Officer
Horizon Outreach
Workshop Date & Time: Tuesday, April 8, 2025, 3:45 – 5:00 PM
Location: La Jolla B, Hilton LAX Hotel
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The Passion That Drives My Professional Contributions

By Jay Fagan, PhD, is a professor emeritus in the School of Social Work at Temple University and former Fatherhood Research and Practice Network co-director.

#HeadStart #ChildDevelopment #EarlyChildhoodEducation #SocialWork #FatherInvolvement #Pregnancy 

Let us guide expectant fathers to understand their role during pregnancy. This blog is an excerpt from the 2024 release of " Fathers and Children Together: A Guide to Developing a Parenting Identity and Supporting Your Child," written by Dr. Jay Fagan, a Professor Emeritus in the Temple University School of Social Work and former Fatherhood Research and Practice Network Co-director. Dr. Fagan's research has focused on father-child relationships and co-parenting in nonresidential and low-income families; responsible fatherhood programs; parenting interventions for low-income mothers and fathers; fathers with children in Head Start and child welfare; and adolescent fathers. Jay's most recent book," Fathers and Children Together: A Guide to Developing a Parenting Identity and Supporting Your Child, " co-authored with Dr. Glen Plam, was published by Routledge in October 2024. He has published four books and many peer-reviewed research papers, mostly on fathers. He was the founding editor of the journal Fathering. 

What role do fathers play during pregnancy?

April 8-10, 2025
Building Bridges
26th International Families and Fathers Conference
Hilton Los Airport Hotel
5711 West Century Boulevard
Los Angeles, California 90045

Call for Workshop Page: https://fathersandfamiliescoalition.org/conferences/call-for-workshop-proposal.html

#socialwork #fatherhood #strengtheningfamilies #childwellbeing #FFCA #buildingbridges #HeadStart #EarlyHeadStart

The 26th International Families and Fathers Conference is not just another event. It is a unique gathering that draws participants from across the globe. Organized by the Fathers and Families Coalition of America (FFCA), this annual event is a beacon for professionals dedicated to the welfare of families and fathers. Its broad international attendance, with participants from every continent, makes it a truly global movement.

In 2024, the conference gained extraordinary recognition and support from President Biden's Administration, appointing three Presidential Appointees whose presence and leadership will be pivotal. Tanguler Gray, the Office of Child Support Services commissioner at the Administration for Children and Families within the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, brings a wealth of experience in family support services. Rebecca Jones Gaston, MSW, who serves as the ACYF Commissioner, Commissioner of the Administration on Children, Youth and Families (ACYF), Acting Associate Commissioner of the Children Bureau (C.B.), and Acting Associate Commissioner of the Family and Youth Services Bureau (FYSB), adds her extensive expertise in child and youth advocacy. Antrell Tyson, appointed Regional Director of the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) for Region IV, completes this trio of influential leaders. Their contributions will enrich the conference, providing valuable insights and advancing family and fatherhood support discussions. This is a unique opportunity to learn from and network with these influential leaders in the field.

The formal recognition and endorsements from prominent political figures further enhance the conference's prestige. Then-U.S. Senator Kamala D. Harris, U.S. Congresswoman Sheila Jackson-Lee, and the Honorable Congressman Danny K. Davis have all lent their support. U.S. Congressmen Jimmy Gomez (34-CA) has also provided congressional recognition, highlighting the conference's impact on fathers and community stakeholders during the annual gala. Their support underscores the importance of your participation.

Additionally, the conference boasts the support of influential figures such as Puerto Rico's first female governor, the Honorable Sila María Calderón, and then Congresswoman Karen Bass, now Mayor of Los Angeles. Their endorsements and support from every U.S. President's Administration since Bill Clinton underscore the event's enduring significance. Your participation will not just be for this year but will have a lasting impact. For more information, visit the conference page and join us in 2025!

By Andy Roszak, JD, MPA, EMT-Paramedic
Founder & Chief Executive Officer
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New Episode Alert: Early Childhood Chats with Dr. James C. Rodríguez, MSW

We are thrilled to announce a brand new episode of Early Childhood Chats, and this one is particularly special! Join us as we sit down with the distinguished Dr. James C. Rodríguez, MSW, for an insightful and thought-provoking discussion on the critical aspects of early childhood development and education.

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Are you passionate about making a significant impact on children and families? Do you strive for excellence in your professional development? If so, the Advanced Practitioner Credential Course offered by the Fathers and Families Coalition of America (FFCA) is your perfect opportunity.

Starting June 5, 2024, our Summer Weekly Remote and On-Demand Course meets every Wednesday from 9:00 AM to Noon PST. This course is designed to fit your busy schedule, combining live sessions with flexible on-demand content. Let's explore this program's immense benefits and why it is an investment worth making. 

The Advanced Practitioner Credential Course is a comprehensive and practical approach that offers significant benefits for professionals working with children and families.  

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Valuing All People: Building Bridges of Excellence
Health, Psychology, Social Work, Early Childhood, Head Start, Educators, Family Studies, Professional Development, Credentialing, Head Start Parent, Family, and Community Engagement (PFCE) Framework

Dr. James C. Rodríguez, M​​SW
President & Chief Executive Officer
Fathers and Families Coalition of America

**Meeting Weekly—Starting June 5th, Wednesdays from 9:00 AM to Noon PST**  

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Valuing All People: Building Bridges of Professional Development Through Technology

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Dr. James C. Rodríguez, M​​SW
President & Chief Executive Officer
Fathers and Families Coalition of America

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Valuing All People: Building Bridges of Generations With Purpose

Nurturing Fathers Program, Fathers and Families Coalition of America, Fatherhood Practitioners, Health, Psychology, Social Work, Early Childhood, Head Start, Educators, Family Studies, Professional Development, Credentialing, Head Start Parent, Family, and Community Engagement (PFCE) Framework

Dr. James C. Rodríguez, M​​SW
President & Chief Executive Officer
Fathers and Families Coalition of America

What personal victories have you celebrated this week? Reflect on your achievements, big or small, and share them with us. Remember, we're all on this journey of self-improvement together, and your victories, no matter how small, inspire us all. 

Purpose is not just a concept; it's the very essence of our existence. Yet, many of us struggle to find true fulfillment, happiness, orjoy in this pursuit. But remember countless resources, from books to philosophers, offer guidance, such as the concept of 'ikigai' for a longer, happier life, or Viktor Frankl's 'Man's Search for Meaning,' which directly addresses the search for meaning and helps to foster self-worth, nurturance, and modeling for generations. This potential for personal growth and fulfillment is within our reach. 

Special Credential - Certificate - Curriculum Academies Information  

Valuing All People: Building Bridges of Excellence
Health, Psychology, Social Work, Early Childhood, Head Start, Educators, Family Studies, Professional Development, Credentialing, Head Start Parent, Family, and Community Engagement (PFCE) Framework

Dr. James C. Rodríguez, M​​SW
President & Chief Executive Officer
Fathers and Families Coalition of America

The Advanced Practitioner Credential for classes starting June 5th. This program will enhance your professional skills, broaden your knowledge, and boost your career prospects.  You can review the course information, syllabus, and modules and register using this link: https://fathersandfamiliescoalition.org/programs/advanced-practitioner-program.html   

This session provides transformative strategies to enhance well-being and is open to anyone interested in becoming a teacher, practitioner, social worker, leader, or those seeking to find their purpose. The course, focusing on foundational theories that nurture self-worth, self-awareness, service before self, and more, is a journey of personal growth that will inspire you. Participants will gain advanced professional development and learn techniques to create a model of excellence.

Dear Colleagues,

The Fathers and Families Coalition of America in Los Angeles is honored to share our final conference program and open registration. The 25th International Families and Fathers  Conference is scheduled from April 22 to 25 and features various workshops and events. The final program is amazing, and you can use it for the events page and e-newsletters.  The conference will commence with a pre-conference on April 22nd, offering specialized training are five dynamic programs for all levels of attendees. 

Advanced Practitioner Credential Course, instructed by
Dr. James C. Rodríguez, MSW
Fathers and Families Coalition of America
Los Angeles, California

Preparing An Immigration Psychological Evaluation instructed by
Cio Hernández, PhD, MFT, LPCC
The Hernandez Family Therapy, Inc.
Berkely, California

Nurturing Fathers Curriculum Facilitator Training instructed by
Mark Perlman, MA and Corey Perlman
Nurturing Fathers Program
Sarasota, Florida

Striving For Excellence - Finding Strength In Imperfection is the basis for this blog highlighting overcoming adversity. The podcast interview, December 22, 2023 Stephana Johnson's podcast "Lead Stronger Longer" interview with me on December 22, 2023, provides a glimpse into my life and poses an important question for attendees of our 25th International Families and Fathers Conference in April. What Are You Called?! No, not your name, but we all have been chosen to give what the world needs; my question is, "What Are You Called To Do?" A follow-up question, "Have you avoided your call?"

Key Highlights:
Military Service & Leadership
Fatherhood Program Innovations
Grant Funding Success & Collaboration
Global Impact on Professional Development
Creating Curricula for Empowering Communities

2024 FFCA CONFERENCE REGISTRATION IS OPEN

April 22-25, 2024
25th International Families and Fathers Conference

A Series About Those Living In Their Ikigai
Dr. James C. Rodriguez, MSW

Dr. Rosina McAlpine is one of the outstanding presenters at the 25th International Families and Fathers Conference. Rosina is one of the leaders of our international affiliates of the Fathers and Families Coalition of America. Dr. McAlpine is a parenting expert, author, multi-award-winning university educator, and researcher for over 30 years. Combining the heart and science of parenting, her research-based parenting programs are delivered nationally and internationally in government and large and small organizations to support working parents in better-managing work and family life.

Dr. Rosina McAlpine, B Com, M Com Hons, MHed, PhD, FCPA
Chief Executive Officer
Win Win Parenting
Sydney, Australia

Dr. Rosina McAlpine
10 January 2024

2024 FFCA CONFERENCE REGISTRATION IS OPEN

April 22-25, 2024
25th International Families and Fathers Conference
Hilton Los Airport Hotel
5711 West Century Boulevard
Los Angeles, California 90045